What’s normal? Can things go back to normal after forgiving infidelity? Can you be normal again? What ever was normal for you has probably changed. So perhaps you can discover what is normal for you now. Perhaps you can create a new normal. Once you get over any guilt, shame, embarrassment of the fact that [...]
The fireworks are over; the facts are out on the table. Somewhere from deep inside you have found some forgiveness for your partner. It appears that there is a clean slate and an opportunity to start again. It can feel like starting again after forgiving infidelity. Neither you nor the other person is the same [...]
It is hard to move on in a relationship if you’ve been cheated on and made to look like a fool. Many have a hard time getting over the feeling of being cheated and resort to shrugging them off or not talking about it with the hopes of it fading away in the future. But [...]
Forgiving infidelity is never easy, many actually fail to successfully forgive and fix their relationship. As a counselor, I’ve spoken with and helped thousands of couples deal with infidelity; and what you will learn in this article are the common steps that they go through when dealing with the problem. Step 1 Confrontation – You [...]
On a day when your world turns on its head and you feel physically sick because of what you just discovered; would forgiving infidelity cross your mind? What you had thought to be true suddenly seems to be a lie. The love and trust you thought you had with your partner has been knocked from [...]
Forgiving a mistake like infidelity is not like forgiving any ordinary mistake that your spouse commits that you can readily forgive. Like missing your anniversary dinner, forgetting to give you flowers on Valentine’s Day, or canceling a planned date on the hour. But infidelity? To many, infidelity would mean the end of the relationship. Just [...]